-- Chinese Proverb
As the Thanksgiving
holiday approaches I find myself reflecting on the numerous things in my life
for which I’m thankful…and many of those revolve around gaming, both as a
player and a creator. Some come thanks to the communication wonders of our
Internet Age, but many still rely on good old face-to-face interaction.
Like so many
positive messages holidays promote, we really should remain thankful throughout
the year. It’s easy to succumb to the overwhelming negative issues in our
lives, even as gamers and creators: a general uncertainty and lack of self
esteem; producing work in a hobby with such a vast scope and seemingly
innumerable others promoting (to various and often more successful degrees)
their own product; the challenges of channeling creativity into workable
products, through the stages of design, text, layout, playtesting, and
publication; and above all (for some of us, anyway) the urge to compare
ourselves and our accomplishments to those in our field who seem more popular
and successful.
So for at
least this month -- and with a mindfulness to reflect on these boons more often
throughout the year -- I consider the many game-related aspects of my life for
which I’m thankful:
Positive Community of Gamers: The
internet has enabled me as a gamer and creator to reach out to gamers across
the world: the many customers who’ve purchased Griffon Publishing Studio game
titles from my e-storefront at DriveThruRPG.com; intelligent playtesters who
provide constructive criticism, new ideas, and some encouragement for my
efforts; gaming friends and colleagues, many new, some lifelong, who continue
our engaging correspondence; clients like the folks at Wicked North Games who
gave me the opportunity to contribute creatures and adventure ideas to their
sci-fi steampunk Westward roleplaying game and to D6 Magazine; friends and
fans who offer positive comments on my blog and social networking posts. I try
very hard (and don’t always succeed) at keeping these interactions positive,
but overall my involvement with an encouraging gamer community online has
lifted my spirits this past year.
Internet Opportunities: The internet has
also exposed me to some opportunities beyond the ability to publish my games in
PDF and reach out to gamers, fans, and customers. Kickstarter has brought to my
attention several fantastic game-related projects I’ve backed, games that
inspire me and encourage me to pursue my own game design work. I’ve also
learned of fellow gamers and friends in need and -- through crowdfunding
websites -- donated to their charitable causes to do my very small part in
helping others.
Family Gaming: I’m thankful to game
regularly with my family. As my toddler son -- the almost four year-old “Little
Guy” -- learns more about his parents’ geeky obsessions, he’s wanted to take
part in such games as the X-Wing
Miniatures Game and King of Tokyo
(albeit modified for simpler play). It’s only a matter of time before we expand
to more involved games, including some basic roleplaying game experiences. (I recently discussed my family gaming experiences over at Hobby Games Recce.) Our
weekly game nights offer us a chance to turn off the television and computers
and spend some quality time face-to-face enjoying games and learning some
lessons along the way. I’m also very thankful that my family allows me the
time, focus, and energy to pursue my game design projects.
Local Gaming: This past year I’ve had
the opportunity for some local, face-to-face gaming, both with a group trying
out new, primarily indie roleplaying games and with some friends who gather
occasionally for good food and board games (including the Little Guy when we
can). Both have occurred sporadically, but hold the promise of more gaming in
the coming months.
FLGS: A new gaming store (with comics)
recently opened within a 10-minute drive of my house…it’s already posted a
schedule with some interesting events (notably X-Wing Miniatures Friday nights and board games all day Saturdays).
It holds some promise for more face-to-face gaming and the chance to expand my
gaming horizons. I’m also thankful for the FLGS I’ve frequented over the past few years at a slightly inconvenient 45-minute drive from home; it offers a
different selection of gaming product and events as well as staff that remains
friendly to a stay-at-home dad who often brings his inquisitive and talkative
toddler son into the store.
In
reflecting on all these factors that have enriched my life I’m reminded to
remember and appreciate them throughout the year. I’m inspired to help others
discover gaming as a worthwhile and enjoyable pastime in their lives; indeed to
use games as a platform for positive interactions among us all.
“In ordinary life we hardly
realize that we receive a great deal more than we give, and that it is only
with gratitude that life becomes rich.”
-- Dietrich Bonhoeffer
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